It is very hard to determine when two teenage lovebirds are having a relationship that might not be puffed away by the wind of life or not. This is because these individuals are so green in the line of dating; their emotions affect their everyday reaction in the relationship. Their immaturity is one of the values that make people realize how inappropriate it is for them to start dating relationships.
They might be infatuated with each other and after the false passion has passed they are left in a quagmire because they might have thought it was true love only to be proved otherwise. The most affected people are the teenage girls because they are the one left with wounds to nurse. Wounds that might include pregnancy to think about, and if they don't abort, they could find themselves with a new status, that of a single mother. This is the greatest fear that such a group has where for instance, if they had started working, the resources might be scanty to sustain themselves, and the father might be unemployed formally and could be facing very difficult times.
The dating experiences teenagers have, can be compared to children who like others only for sometime, and then declare that they have ended the friendship after a short period of time. They would not be blamed, to them, the dating relationship is just a way of having fun, where they engage in sexual intercourse and living the way they want, or the way the expectations of the society have pegged themselves on their shoulders. Finding friendship is very easy, but finding true friendship occasioned by dating instances is the hardest thing.
It has been determined that those people who have a genuine friendship have chances of finally breaking into the world of dating with such successful vigor. If one starts on a relationship with a friendship viewpoint, and it continues to develop into something better, then you must realize how important the value of true friendship is. In fact, being friends initially means that you had some chemistry running through you that made the friendship a reality.
From that path of friendship to dating relationships, you can have a serious but fulfilling business of building up a long lasting kind of love. The relationship would then be strengthened by friendship ties that make the prevailing respect and trust run through their veins of life to make the friendship something to savor as they continue working towards, making their dating a reality.
There is nothing like true friendship, it makes life sail through with a finesse that makes many wonder what happened along the way before you became friends. What was that thing that hits you with its components which make you like each other like that? There might be nothing, might be a feeling of trust and closeness, but evidently, a dating relationship that lacks true friendship might not make it over time.
--Francis K.Githinji
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